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The Kind of Happiness We Should Be Sad About
Given how hard it is to be happy, it seems churlish and mean to say of anyone that they might…
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Is There Something Wrong – or Am I Just a Miserable Person?
The beginning of more hopeful judgement begins with squaring up to how oddly prone to misjudgment we are – on the basis of how sad, fearful and unrepresentative our early experiences have been.
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How We Can Feel Misunderstood – Without Ever Explaining Who We Are
Did you ever explain yourself properly to the person who is meant to have ignored you? Did you work hard to make yourself known before surrendering to a sense of being unnoticed?
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What Does the Child in You Need Today?
We’ll accede to a fairer, calmer, kinder adulthood once we accept with grace how close we remain always to the delicate, sensitive, tear-prone little person we once were.
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Love and ‘The Waste Land’
‘The Waste Land’ is the name of a poem published in 1922 by the Anglo-American writer T. S. Eliot. Widely…
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Relationships
Love Lessons
It can be easy to feel – as we look back on our love lives – that we have been…
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Sociability
When People Start To Get Interesting…
We may spend a considerable portion of our lives chewing over – in the background – a highly consequential-sounding question:…
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Self-Knowledge
Learning To Be More Immature
Most of us need, of course, to make every effort to behave more maturely around other people: that is, to…
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Understanding The Fear of Intimacy
The feeling of disdain is widespread for those who are said to be, behind the smiles, ‘afraid of intimacy’, or…
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Work
Thinking Well in the Age of AI
A Practice for Slowing Down We are entering an era in which thinking could become optional. At almost any moment,…
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Self-Knowledge
Why Don’t We All Go Mad?
We know the scene well enough. A supermarket aisle; a three-year-old, a stressed mother, and a conflict. He wanted a…
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Relationships
Maybe You Really Were Too Good for Them
It’s one of the harder ideas to take on board – if we’re modest and kind people, which we are,…
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