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How to Leave a Party
It is possible to catch a telling glimpse of our levels of underconfidence in a sad quirk of our approach…
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Giving Up on People Pleasing
The people pleaser needs to learn an unusual and little-mentioned art: that of giving up on people.
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The Benefits of Forgetfulness
We are rescued from many of our sorrows not by active solutions or nifty work of the intellect but by our reliable tendencies to forget.
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Sociability
On Becoming a Hermit
It’s one of the telling quirks of history that just as the world was growing ever noisier and more urbanised,…
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Auditing Our Worries
One of the basic courtesies we almost never remember to pay our worries is to go back and check how…
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Calm
Why We May Need a Convalescence
The word ‘convalescent’ has – tellingly and sadly – gone very much out of fashion. In the olden days, it…
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Sociability
How to Have a Renaissance
At the beginning of the 14th century, the leaders of an obscure Tuscan town on the banks of the river…
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Giving Up on Being Special
We’re likely to try out many sorts of lives before we land, finally, on the quiet variety. Rarely does anyone…
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Relationships
Why You Will Never Quite Get it Right in Love
With time, we may be forced to reach a conclusion that, though hugely bitter, demands that we accept it with…
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Self-Knowledge
Am I a Bad Person?
We tend to spend a good deal of psychological energy warding off a possibility that feels as abhorrent as it…
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Calm
The Perils of Making Predictions
We tend to get very attached to plan As. We’ll get married, move into a house near the park, work…
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Sociability
On Becoming a Hermit
It’s one of the telling quirks of history that just as the world was growing ever noisier and more urbanised,…
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Calm
Auditing Our Worries
One of the basic courtesies we almost never remember to pay our worries is to go back and check how…
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Calm
Why We May Need a Convalescence
The word ‘convalescent’ has – tellingly and sadly – gone very much out of fashion. In the olden days, it…
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Sociability
How to Have a Renaissance
At the beginning of the 14th century, the leaders of an obscure Tuscan town on the banks of the river…
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Work
Giving Up on Being Special
We’re likely to try out many sorts of lives before we land, finally, on the quiet variety. Rarely does anyone…
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Relationships
Why You Will Never Quite Get it Right in Love
With time, we may be forced to reach a conclusion that, though hugely bitter, demands that we accept it with…
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Self-Knowledge
Am I a Bad Person?
We tend to spend a good deal of psychological energy warding off a possibility that feels as abhorrent as it…
View
Calm
The Perils of Making Predictions
We tend to get very attached to plan As. We’ll get married, move into a house near the park, work…
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