It could sound rather brutal to hear, but it's in fact the most generous and optimistic sentiment, because only once we give up on the absurd dream of finding the right person can we start to make it work with that far more realistic and likely partner: the good enough person.



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Complaining carries such negative connotations, it can be hard to remember that there are better and worse ways of doing it – and indeed, hard to realise that an essential ingredient of love is to know how to level complaints kindly. Read More