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Relationships • Conflicts

On How to Defuse an Argument


The simplest way to defuse your partner’s fury is not to tell them to calm down or to use the occasion to bring up another argument, but to offer a genuine apology (they’re always free). In the heat of an argument, remember that they’re not ‘nasty’, but hurt and vulnerable and that, at times, we too have been impossible.


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