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Why People Who Were Never Chosen Will Have a Hard Time Choosing You
We may be far into a relationship before a somewhat puzzling and difficult realisation starts to dawn on us: we’re…
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Is There Something Wrong – or Am I Just a Miserable Person?
The beginning of more hopeful judgement begins with squaring up to how oddly prone to misjudgment we are – on the basis of how sad, fearful and unrepresentative our early experiences have been.
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How We Can Feel Misunderstood – Without Ever Explaining Who We Are
Did you ever explain yourself properly to the person who is meant to have ignored you? Did you work hard to make yourself known before surrendering to a sense of being unnoticed?
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What Does the Child in You Need Today?
We’ll accede to a fairer, calmer, kinder adulthood once we accept with grace how close we remain always to the delicate, sensitive, tear-prone little person we once were.
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Partners Who Punish You for Loving Them
We might think that what everyone longs for is love, and that the natural response to being loved would be…
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People Who Are Missing a Sense of Self
One of the odder features of life is that, without there being too many significant outward signs of the problem,…
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On Mocking the Superstitious
Rational people are used to being (at least in private) distinctly merciless in their mockery of the superstitious: the cohort…
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The Best and Worst Ways to Be Left in Love
Being left by someone who once loved us – and whom we still adore – has to count among the…
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When People Tell You Who They Are, Believe Them
There’s a familiar expression that captures a deep psychological truth: ‘when people tell you who they are, believe them’. What…
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Why – and How – We Need to Make Our Peace With Being Single
Among the many skills required to have a good relationship, one stands out above any other: the capacity to live…
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The Ex You Can’t Get Over
It’s when a very meaningful relationship comes to an end that we stand to discover a highly peculiar fact about…
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Relationships
When to Get Out of a Relationship
We are often reminded that – in our self-indulgent times – people tend to get out of relationships far too…
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Relationships
Partners Who Punish You for Loving Them
We might think that what everyone longs for is love, and that the natural response to being loved would be…
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Self-Knowledge
People Who Are Missing a Sense of Self
One of the odder features of life is that, without there being too many significant outward signs of the problem,…
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Self-Knowledge
On Mocking the Superstitious
Rational people are used to being (at least in private) distinctly merciless in their mockery of the superstitious: the cohort…
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Relationships
The Best and Worst Ways to Be Left in Love
Being left by someone who once loved us – and whom we still adore – has to count among the…
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Self-Knowledge
When People Tell You Who They Are, Believe Them
There’s a familiar expression that captures a deep psychological truth: ‘when people tell you who they are, believe them’. What…
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Relationships
Why – and How – We Need to Make Our Peace With Being Single
Among the many skills required to have a good relationship, one stands out above any other: the capacity to live…
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Relationships
The Ex You Can’t Get Over
It’s when a very meaningful relationship comes to an end that we stand to discover a highly peculiar fact about…
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Relationships
When to Get Out of a Relationship
We are often reminded that – in our self-indulgent times – people tend to get out of relationships far too…
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