Calm
Auditing Our Worries
One of the basic courtesies we almost never remember to pay our worries is to go back and check how…
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Serenity
Haikus and Appreciation
We have known how to be calm all along; we’ve just never before been so intently asked to imagine ourselves into feeling so.
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The Call of Calm
This is where we long to be, this is what our hearts crave, this is where we have been trying to get to all our lives.
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What Would Paradise Look Like?
Even if we are hard-core atheists, we should learn to ask ourselves what our particular version of a non-spiritual ‘paradise’ would be like – and take regular imaginative rests there for a time.
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Calm
Why We May Need a Convalescence
The word ‘convalescent’ has – tellingly and sadly – gone very much out of fashion. In the olden days, it…
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Sociability
How to Have a Renaissance
At the beginning of the 14th century, the leaders of an obscure Tuscan town on the banks of the river…
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Work
Giving Up on Being Special
We’re likely to try out many sorts of lives before we land, finally, on the quiet variety. Rarely does anyone…
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Relationships
Why You Will Never Quite Get it Right in Love
With time, we may be forced to reach a conclusion that, though hugely bitter, demands that we accept it with…
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Self-Knowledge
Am I a Bad Person?
We tend to spend a good deal of psychological energy warding off a possibility that feels as abhorrent as it…
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Calm
The Perils of Making Predictions
We tend to get very attached to plan As. We’ll get married, move into a house near the park, work…
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Calm
What is a Transcendental Experience?
A ‘transcendental experience’ – from the Latin transcendere, meaning ‘to go beyond’ – denotes a brief, uncommon, ecstatic and revelatory…
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Relationships
Understanding Attachment Theory
An unusual realisation that lovers may eventually make is that it is hard to envisage successfully navigating any relationship without…
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Calm
Why We May Need a Convalescence
The word ‘convalescent’ has – tellingly and sadly – gone very much out of fashion. In the olden days, it…
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Sociability
How to Have a Renaissance
At the beginning of the 14th century, the leaders of an obscure Tuscan town on the banks of the river…
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Work
Giving Up on Being Special
We’re likely to try out many sorts of lives before we land, finally, on the quiet variety. Rarely does anyone…
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Relationships
Why You Will Never Quite Get it Right in Love
With time, we may be forced to reach a conclusion that, though hugely bitter, demands that we accept it with…
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Self-Knowledge
Am I a Bad Person?
We tend to spend a good deal of psychological energy warding off a possibility that feels as abhorrent as it…
View
Calm
The Perils of Making Predictions
We tend to get very attached to plan As. We’ll get married, move into a house near the park, work…
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Calm
What is a Transcendental Experience?
A ‘transcendental experience’ – from the Latin transcendere, meaning ‘to go beyond’ – denotes a brief, uncommon, ecstatic and revelatory…
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Relationships
Understanding Attachment Theory
An unusual realisation that lovers may eventually make is that it is hard to envisage successfully navigating any relationship without…
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