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Why We All End up Marrying Our Parents
One of the most superficially familiar but enduringly striking (even shocking) ideas bequeathed to us by psychoanalysis is that we…
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Why Misfits Make Great Friends
Once we have given up on the poisonous goal of respectability, we will at last be ready for friendship.
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How Music Can Heal Us
Intuitively, we know that music can heal but rarely is it asked to do so as directly and explicitly as…
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A Bedtime Meditation
To foster ever greater self-awareness, we should carve out time for introspection during two highly conducive periods: late at night…
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What Your Body Reveals About Your Past
For well-founded reasons, we can end up imagining that the main clues to understanding who we are lie in our…
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How to Sleep Better
Sometimes we have simply had too much coffee, or the bedroom is too hot…but most often, insomnia is psychological. It…
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Parenting and People-Pleasing
People pleasing doesn’t at first glance look like a symptom of anything other than being a lovely person. What could…
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Relationships
Two Questions to Repair a Relationship
Few couples appreciate the need for ongoing relationship-maintenance. Every day brings with it small challenges — disappointments, frustrations, irritations —…
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When Illness is Preferable to Health
The idea that there might be an ‘advantage’ to feeling mentally unwell can sound strange — and possibly highly insulting…
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How to Process Your Emotions
An unexpected and troublesome feature of being human is that we feel so much more than we spontaneously realise we…
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Self-Knowledge
How Music Can Heal Us
Intuitively, we know that music can heal but rarely is it asked to do so as directly and explicitly as…
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Self-Knowledge
A Bedtime Meditation
To foster ever greater self-awareness, we should carve out time for introspection during two highly conducive periods: late at night…
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Self-Knowledge
What Your Body Reveals About Your Past
For well-founded reasons, we can end up imagining that the main clues to understanding who we are lie in our…
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Calm
How to Sleep Better
Sometimes we have simply had too much coffee, or the bedroom is too hot…but most often, insomnia is psychological. It…
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Relationships
Parenting and People-Pleasing
People pleasing doesn’t at first glance look like a symptom of anything other than being a lovely person. What could…
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Relationships
Two Questions to Repair a Relationship
Few couples appreciate the need for ongoing relationship-maintenance. Every day brings with it small challenges — disappointments, frustrations, irritations —…
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Self-Knowledge
When Illness is Preferable to Health
The idea that there might be an ‘advantage’ to feeling mentally unwell can sound strange — and possibly highly insulting…
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Calm
How to Process Your Emotions
An unexpected and troublesome feature of being human is that we feel so much more than we spontaneously realise we…
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