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Honesty On Early Dates
We are here, ultimately, because we are fed up with being unseen; we have come here to be known, to…
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How to Weaken the Hold of Addiction
Many of us are prey to addictive behaviours which we know run contrary to our deeper interests but which we find ourselves entirely unable to desist from at key moments.
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Behaviours
Charles Darwin and the Descent of Man
It is completely understandable that we are often maddened by what might be called ‘normal’ humanity. In such moods the 19th century naturalist Charles Darwin has much to say to us.
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Straightforward vs. Complicated People
A basic distinction in humans is between those who are simple and straightforward to deal with – and those who are – as we tend to be reminded when we interact with them – repeatedly tricky or complicated to handle.
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Self-Knowledge
Your Two Options in Love After a Bad Childhood
Let’s imagine you had a bad childhood. You may hardly remember it; it almost doesn’t matter. The easiest way to…
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Relationships
The Mess of the Dating World
Any exposure to the modern dating world quickly teaches us that there is extraordinary chaos at large, and nowhere is…
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Relationships
Why Do Some People Have Such Trouble Being Single?
We might posit the existence of two very different kinds of single people: what we could call the cheerfully single…
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Self-Knowledge
Dating, Confidence and Childhood
We tend to keep a wide intellectual berth between our childhoods and our dating lives. The first was about rubber…
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Relationships
The Courage to Love Again
It’s odd, surely, to use the word ‘courage’ – the thing you need in air raid shelters and cancer wards…
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Relationships
Leaving in Search of a Worse Relationship
Common sense dictates that people leave relationships because they wish, in essence, to find someone better: someone better able to…
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Relationships
On Seeing an Ex’s Profile on a Dating App
There will have been versions of this in other eras, of course. Seeing their name on the board for the…
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Sociability
Eight Rules for Friendship
A Community Dedicated to Learning the Art of Friendship We are inclined to think that the secret of great friendship…
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