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Everything Is So Weird

There are moments, terrifying but also useful, vertiginous, comedic and in their own way filled grandeur and beauty, when we leave ordinary reality behind and perceive everything as for once entirely and profoundly weird.

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Escaping Into History

We should, at moments, be allowed to admit to longing to be living in a different age, and not to have to think about all the things that people of our times are so strongly supposed to be obsessed by.

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The Inevitability of Choice

There are so few public reminders of life’s necessary trade-offs. Yet once we understand the incompatibilities, we are in a better position to do what we always needed to do: choose.

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Learning To Trust Again

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Learning To Trust Again

When we have been the victims of treachery or adultery in love, the loss is not just of the person…
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Stick At It

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Stick At It

When life inside a couple has grown full of strife, when argument follows argument, when both people are hurting and…
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What Kinks Are About

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What Kinks Are About

One of the great puzzles of psychology is why kinks exist. Not only are we typically highly selective about who…
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