How To Get Married

  • Relationships

An outline for a new kind of wedding ceremony free from theology, with new rituals designed to prepare us for modern marriage

Many of us are attracted to the idea of marriage and yet feel a bit uncomfortable with some of the rituals that are traditionally associated with the big day. Perhaps the old ceremonies place too much emphasis on religion or else seem out of step with some of the complex realities of contemporary relationships. In response to this dilemma, The School of Life has rethought what the ideal wedding day would consist of and redesigned the process for modern couples.

Product description

The book proposes new ways of getting prepared for a wedding at a psychological level, suggesting how couples should ready themselves for the often tricky journey ahead. It presents an entirely practical and thoughtfully redesigned wedding ceremony, from picking out a suitable venue to suggested vows and readings. Finally, it offers some ideas for how to approach the start of married life.

• An outline for a new kind of wedding ceremony – based on psychological theory rather than religious traditions.
• Includes practical instructions for marriage preparation, as well as advice for married life.
• Includes the Order of Service with suggested vows and readings.


“Fantastic book. Really helped me get through the emotional journey of getting married.”
“Brilliant alternative view to marriage and creating a long-lasting union.”