{"id":1321,"date":"2019-04-02T06:30:00","date_gmt":"2019-04-02T06:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.theschooloflife.com\/paris\/blog\/2019\/04\/02\/lepicerie-du-coin-kanagawaken-yokohama-pour-la-timidite\/"},"modified":"2022-10-18T13:18:10","modified_gmt":"2022-10-18T13:18:10","slug":"kanagawaken-yokohama-pour-la-timidite","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.theschooloflife.com\/paris\/blog\/kanagawaken-yokohama-pour-la-timidite\/","title":{"rendered":"L\u2019Epicerie du Coin, Kanagawaken, Yokohama \u2013 pour la Timidit\u00e9"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"btn-small\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri; font-size: medium;\">Le 1er jour n\u2019\u00e9tait vraiment pas \u00e9vident. Tu es all\u00e9 \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9picerie du coin derri\u00e8re la rue marchande de <em>Motomachi<\/em> pour acheter une carte de t\u00e9l\u00e9phone pr\u00e9pay\u00e9e. Tu as point\u00e9 le t\u00e9l\u00e9phone du doigt en imitant l\u2019appel de la main. Mr <em>Nishimura<\/em> n\u2019a rien compris. Tu avais chaud et te sentais un peu \u00e9tourdi (il faisait 37 degr\u00e9s et tr\u00e8s humide). Tu t\u2019es senti idiot. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"btn-small\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri; font-size: medium;\">Un sentiment d\u00e9sagr\u00e9ablement familier fit \u00e9cho \u00e0 la honte du gros blanc que tu as eu lors ton premier expos\u00e9 \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9cole primaire ; au malaise des soir\u00e9es universitaires o\u00f9 tout le monde semblait avoir des plans et tu n\u2019\u00e9tais pas s\u00fbre si tu pouvais demander de te joindre \u00e0 eux. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"btn-small\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Avec le temps, tu as appris comment \u00e9viter ces situations inconfortables (bien que certaines personnes semblent les naviguer sans le moindre g\u00eane). Tu parviens \u00e0 g\u00e9rer ta timidit\u00e9 et ta crainte d\u2019\u00eatre le centre de l\u2019attention. Quand l\u2019inconnue menace et pointe son nez, tu trouves refuges en te retirant. Tu ne demandes jamais des directions \u00e0 un passant dans la rue, l\u2019id\u00e9e de te pr\u00e9senter \u00e0 un groupe de personnes en soir\u00e9e est terrifiante. Mais \u00e0 pr\u00e9sent, tu commences \u00e0 te fatiguer du revers de cette strat\u00e9gie de survie&nbsp;: son prix est trop \u00e9lev\u00e9.&nbsp; <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"btn-small\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri; font-size: medium;\">Au Japon, tout t\u2019est inconnu. Evidemment que tu ne maitrises pas l\u2019\u00e9tiquette&nbsp;! Tu es si loin de passer inaper\u00e7u que \u00e7a en est dr\u00f4le. La timidit\u00e9 n\u2019est plus une option viable. Tu t\u2019affiches d\u00e9j\u00e0 tellement\u2026 <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"btn-small\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri; font-size: medium;\">Donc tu retournes \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9picerie. Tu retires de l\u2019argent \u00e0 la borne (qui a une option en anglais). Tu ach\u00e8tes des chips saveurs wasabi et tu fais un grand sourire \u00e0 Mr <em>Nishimura<\/em>. Tu commences \u00e0 apprendre \u00e0 avoir un peu plus confiance en toi. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"btn-small\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri; font-size: medium;\">En apprenant \u00e0 d\u00e9passer ta timidit\u00e9 et pas juste \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9viter, tu pratiques une comp\u00e9tence vitale. Un s\u00e9jour qui te plonge dans un style de vie si diff\u00e9rent \u00e0 ta routine usuelle, est le contexte id\u00e9al pour exercer la confiance en soi (qui rel\u00e8ve vraiment de la comp\u00e9tence et non d\u2019une bonne ou mauvaise chance). Tu ne loges pas dans une cha\u00eene d\u2019h\u00f4tel. Tu as lou\u00e9 l\u2019appartement du charmant <em>Kazutaka<\/em>, pr\u00e8s des merveilleux jardins <em>Sankeien<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"btn-small\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Aujourd\u2019hui tu as achet\u00e9 un paquet de <em>Chokobi<\/em>, des petits biscuits chocolat\u00e9s en forme d\u2019\u00e9toiles. Tu as fait une blague \u00e0 propos de la pluie. Tu as dit \u00ab&nbsp;<em>ame desu<\/em>&nbsp;\u00bb en montrant tes cheveux tremp\u00e9s du doigt. Tu l\u2019as pratiqu\u00e9 apr\u00e8s le petit-d\u00e9jeuner en esp\u00e9rant que \u00e7a signifie bien \u00ab&nbsp;il pleut&nbsp;\u00bb. Mr <em>Nishimura <\/em>t\u2019a souri. \u00c7a corrige ta vision du monde h\u00e9rit\u00e9e du pass\u00e9&nbsp;: tu r\u00e9alises que cet oncle qui \u00e9tait si difficile \u00e0 amuser et qui te faisait passer pour un moins-que-rien, n\u2019est pas la norme\u2026&nbsp; <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"btn-small\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri; font-size: medium;\"><span class=\"btn-medium\">Tu cultives une comp\u00e9tence essentielle qui manque \u00e0 ta vie.<\/span> <\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3777,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[22,70,76],"tags":[24,66,65],"class_list":["post-1321","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-all","category-loisir","category-voyage","tag-all","tag-loisir","tag-voyage"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v25.4 - 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