Spending Time Alone
This is a workshop about the lost and yet highly valuable art of solitude and how to cultivate it in our modern lives.
Is it possible to be happy in partnerships with family, friends or work colleagues– if we can’t, first, also be happy in ourselves?
Our societies are confused about solitude as our culture promotes highly contradictory attitudes towards spending time alone. Spending time alone can be seen as valuable as well as sad, peaceful and a sign of social inadequacy. Not to mention how often the images of happiness conveyed by television and advertising often feature merry groups of friends, whilst being alone and being lonely are considered almost synonymous. But one in three of us now lives alone, and this number is only set to rise.
In Spending Time Alone, we will;
- Explore the distinction between solitude and loneliness.
- Ask just why being alone can sometimes feel so frightening, and what benefits there might be to overcoming these fears.
- Consider what we can learn from hermits and those who have actively retreated from the world.
- Examine the many potential benefits of spending time alone
6.00pm Workshop begins
7.30pm Break (times vary)
9.00pm Workshop finishes
'If you are never alone, you cannot know yourself.'
― Paulo Coelho
Our classes have been designed to give useful insights around the big themes in life. You’ll be challenged to think deeply and have courageous conversations about the issues that matter most, and you’ll be encouraged to step outside your comfort zone in a safe space with other curious, open-minded individuals.
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These sessions are designed by experts and taught by members of our faculty. They include a mix of lecture, conversation and group activity.
Pierz Newton-John is a writer, psychotherapist and software designer. Pierz’s short stories have been widely published in Australian literary journals and anthologies, and his critically acclaimed collection “Fault Lines” was published by Spineless Wonders in 2012.
As a psychotherapist, Pierz worked for many years in private practice and in the correctional system. He wrote a book on post-prison reintegration which for several years was provided to all prisoners released from Victorian gaols. More recently Pierz has pursued an interest in technology, working as a web developer for the not-for-profit counselling organisation On the Line.