How To Find Love

Choosing a partner is one of the trickiest and most consequential decisions we will ever make. The costs of repeated failure, in terms of distress and wasted time, are immense. Partners used to be found for us by parents and society, but now we are expected to follow our feelings - to locate people by ourselves, according to intuition. This should be an improvement, but all too often our emotions pull us towards hugely problematic characters and dynamics, according to a logic we seldom fully understand.

In How to Find Love, we will:

  • Improve our understanding of why we make the choices we do.
  • Discover how our early experiences give us scripts regarding whom we can love, and how.
  • Examine harmful repetitive patterns.
  • Examine the extent to which we choose people who make us unhappy.
  • Study three of the most common techniques by which we sabotage our chances of fulfilment.
  • Learn how there are always more possible partners than we initially believe.
  • Broaden our unconscious scripts for whom we can love.

This class equips us with a crucial set of insights to help us make safer, more imaginative and more effective choices in love.

TIMETABLE - WEEKDAYS

5.45pm            Drinks & welcome
6.00pm            Class begins
7.30pm            Break (times vary)
9.00pm            Class finishes 

TIMETABLE - SATURDAY MORNING

10.00am            Drinks & welcome
10.15am            Class begins
11.45am            Break (times vary)
1.00pm             Class finishes 

TIMETABLE - SATURDAY AFTERNOON

2.00pm            Drinks & welcome
2.15pm            Class begins
3.45pm            Break (times vary)
5.00pm            Class finishes 

DATES TBA

'When you fish for love, bait with your heart, not your brain.'
– Mark Twain

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How to Find Love is one of the twelve classes that comprise our core curriculum. Our classes tackle the core themes of emotional life, from relationships and the workplace, to understanding the self and exploring our relationship with culture. You can explore the full curriculum here.

This class is in a sequence with How to Make Love Last and Stay or Leave? which together cover The School of Life's ideas on relationships.

The School of Life Curriculum has been written, designed and quality assured by The School of Life HQ in London, led by Alain de Botton. Presented as an EQ learning journey, these 12 classes and 4 full-day workshops bring together over 10 years of teaching and continuous improvement of our emotional intelligence curriculum around the world.

About Classes

Our classes have been designed to give useful insights around the big themes in life. You’ll be challenged to think deeply and have courageous conversations about the issues that matter most, and you’ll be encouraged to step outside your comfort zone in a safe space with other curious, open-minded individuals.

To find out more about what to expect when you come to a class or workshop at The School of Life, take a look inside our London classroom.

These sessions are designed by experts and taught by members of our faculty. They include a mix of lecture, conversation and group activity.

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How To Find Love

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TICKETING

Full price: $90.00
Concession: $75.00
(+ $2 booking fee and 1.5% CC fee) 

Valid concession cards include a Health Care Card, Seniors Card, Pensioner Concession Card and current student cards.

Please note that we are unable to offer refunds or transfers with less than 7 days cancellation notice before the original class date.

For ticketing and box office enquiries please call +61 (0)434 492 669 or email melbourne@theschooloflife.com.au.