How to be Confident
The difference between success and failure often hangs on a humiliatingly small and elusive trait that standard education never touches: confidence.
We spend vast amounts of time acquiring confidence in narrow professional fields, while overlooking the primordial need to acquire a more wide-ranging variety of confidence which can serve us across a range of tasks in our professional and personal lives.
We so often lack confidence because we implicitly regard its possession as a matter of slightly freakish good luck. We believe we are stuck with the confidence levels we were born with, but as this class shows, the opposite is true. Confidence is not a gift from the gods, but a skill that can be learned. It is a skill founded on a set of ideas we have about the world and our natural place within it.
How to Be Confident teaches us:
- How to overcome the impostor syndrome.
- How to master shyness about advancing our plans.
- How to outgrow the legacy of childhood timidity.
- How to remain confident that we can change things through our own agency.
We leave the class equipped with a range of confidence-inducing ideas to allow us to escape the shackles of excessive hesitancy and compliance. We are schooled in the art of confidence.
Raul Aparici is a consultant, coach and facilitator. With a diverse background that includes a career in the fitness industry, a BA in English Literature and an MA in Critical Theory, he likes to match academic insights with commercial pragmatism, while living in the real world. He provides Equine Assisted Coaching and Leadership Consulting with Operation Centaur in Richmond Park and he is a Visiting Faculty member on the Coaching (PG Cert) Programme at Birkbeck College, University of London.
Maurits Kalff is a psychologist, coach, trainer and magistrate, based in London. His coaching psychology practice works in both the public and private sector; working with people living with chronic illness to investment bankers; Maurits' focus is on quality of life, fulfilling careers and relationships.
How to be Confident is one of the twelve classes that comprise our core curriculum. Our classes tackle the core themes of emotional life, from relationships and the workplace, to understanding the self and exploring our relationship with culture. You can explore the full curriculum here.
This class is in a sequence with How to Identify Your Career Potential and How to Fail which together cover The School of Life's ideas on work.
Our classes have been designed to give useful insights around the big themes in life. You’ll be challenged to think deeply about the issues that matter most, and provided with a space to share your thoughts, ideas and experiences with other curious, open-minded individuals.
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