How to Find Love - Virtual Class




You can experience The School of Life from your home by joining our programme of virtual classes. Classes are delivered via Zoom and feature expert teachers, enlightening content, interactive exercises with other participants, practical guidance, comfort and consolation. Further information on how to connect to the class will be made available once you have purchased a ticket.

What is ‘How to Find Love’?

How to Find Love is a 2 hour class by The School of Life which takes place regularly in our virtual classroom over Zoom. It is one of 12 classes around our 4 core themes: Love, Work, Self and Culture. 

 Why should I attend?

Choosing a life-partner can be one of the trickiest decisions we will ever make. We are expected to follow our feelings, and locate people according to our intuition. And yet, our emotions cannot always be trusted; and they often lead us to problematic characters that repeat patterns of suffering.

We once relied on parents and society to find partners for us, however, the process and responsibility has now been handed over to us. In many cases, our frantic pursuit leads to complications. Fortunately, there are practical ideas we can engage with to understand our needs and find long-lasting love.

What will I learn?

How to Find Love teaches us how to:

  • Improve our understanding of why we make the choices we do.
  • Discover how our early experiences give us scripts, some of them problematic, about whom we can love.
  • Examine harmful repetitive patterns.
  • Ask whether we sometimes reject love and affection because it feels undeserved and out of line with our sense of worth.
  • Study three of the most common techniques by which we sabotage our chances of fulfilment.
  • Explore whether we are being too ‘choosy’ or, conversely, not choosy enough.

This class costs £55 and is run by an experienced, compassionate member of our faculty. You can read more about our faculty here. 

Dates and times are available to book below. New dates for this class are added throughout the year.


Evening Classes - Please note that all timings are in British Summer Time (BST)

6:30pm BST session opens

6:45pm BST class begins

9:00pm BST class ends


Morning Classes - Please note that all timings are in British Summer Time (BST)

9:30am BST session opens

9:45am BST class begins

12:00pm BST class ends


For more information, please see our London FAQs or contact

Classroom Testimonials

- ‘Great class on a sensitive subject for many; great skill in creating trust in the group and discussion.’

- ‘I thought that it was excellent; very interesting and it covered topics that I have never come across.’

‘Wonderful; everyone has been so warm and welcoming.’

Buy tickets for
How to Find Love - Virtual Class

£40 Friends | £55 Standard (plus fees)

When and where:
  • Thu 24 Sep 2020 6.30pm BST - 9.00pm BST
    Virtual Class (Zoom)
  • Tue 20 Oct 2020 6.30pm BST - 9.00pm BST
    Virtual Class (Zoom)